Nikah Khitbah

In Malay custom, marriage usually starts with an engagement. 

However, what is practices by the community before which is NIKAH KHITBAH is more faithful.

Some people says that KHITBAH and engagement are the same but actually they are wrong.

Many of the young generation asked 

<come on, this is the modern world, what is wrong with couple???>

Well, who says couple is wrong???

But, we have to do it in a right way which is MARRIAGE.

When we talk about marriage young people would make these a big deal:

• I am not working yet
• I have not finish my study yet
• How to support my family
• Parents are not going to allow 
• Where to stay
• Who is going to pay for house rent
• and many more related question

Why they can have thousands of excuse to do something HALAL but when it comes to something HARAM, no one is going to put a question.

No worries about high expenses for wedding ceremony.

They just need to proceed with AKAD NIKAH and can delay the WALIMATUL URUS.

By NIKAH KHITBAH you don't have to worry because your partner are not going to stay with you, instead their parents are the one who should support the expenses. 

But, they can always meet each other without any worries and they are free from any sins. 

They can stay together whenever they are fully ready to carry out the duty as a husband and wife.

So, my conclusion is, NIKAH KHITBAH is the way how to make couple HALAL. 

L0ve tiLL JannAh

In the west they say that love is a madness that ENDS with marriage.

But in ISLAM, we say that love is a madness that only BEGINS with marriage.

I was wondering what will happen to married couples????

Are they really going to be happy forever and ever??

Just like how we wish to the newlyweds 

<semoga berbahagia hingga ke akhir hayat>

<semoga berbahagia hingga ke anak cucu>

Well, I just realize why don't we wish them with

<semoga berbahagia hingga ke syurga>

That is why we must search for life partner and complete our religion

"marry those among you who are spouse-less and the virtuous among your male and female slaves (thereby freeing them), if they are poor Allah will enrich them with His bounty, Allah is embracing, knowing.."

I am preparing my self to be a good partner and pious wife for my future husband

I don't know who that men will be but I have faith that if I were a good women, I will get a good men as my husband

Allah promise us that :)

"and women of purity are for men of purity

and men of purity are for women of purity"

MUET

Okey, today all of kirkbyte got their result for Malaysian University English Test (MUET)..

Well, me too.. :)

Ehem, i got band 3 for that with the score of 171..

8 more marks to achieve band 4.. 

Means that I have to resit for the MUET coz we have to get band 4..

WHY??

Because we are taking TESL course, so we have to get band 4 if we want to continue with our degree..

Quite disappointed with my result.. 

However, I still thanked Allah coz it is actually not as bad as i thought..

But, I was quite ashamed with 1 person..

He got band 4 for his MUET..

My friend, Jia told me that I should not feel that way coz he is a boy. 

So, he should get more than me since he is the leader..

Whatever it is I am proud and happy with his achievement..

I will do my best and better in my NEXT MUET..hahaha

favorite classmates

twins??

Here let me introduce you all to my favorite classmate,

Wan Nur Azimah Binti Wan Faizal.

 She is also my favorite friend, sister, listener and anything lar.. hahaha..

She always comfort me when I am miserable and more likely to become crazy..hahaha

She is the only person who are willing to entertain my childish habit.

 When I feel like hugging someone I will turn to her.

 Not lesbo okey!! hahaha..

She always said that I am more to her younger sister that is why she spoiled me.. :)

I LOVE HER so much..muaaahhhhh...

Next, she is FatinNajiha Binti Zainuddin.

She is a very tough woman.

 I call her JIA but among the boys she is  called the sixteen boys.

 Well, we have fifteen boys in this college but because of the way she behave, the boys consider her as a boy.hahahaha..

Whatever it is, i know that deep inside her, she is a pure woman. 

I can see that when she comfort and give advise to me. 

she also got the sensitive part of her which other woman should have.

So, there is no doubt that she is a girl.hahaha

Finally, I have to admit that I LOVE HER.. :)

a memory to erase

You'll find love stories ranging from fantasy to real life that will satisfy your every mood and occasion .
 Whether you desire to share your own love story or get inspired by another's.

There was girl who loved a boy so much she said to the boy,
 "If I told you that I liked you, would you take it as a joke?"

The boy said, "Yes I would."

She asked, "Why?"

The boy replied,
 "Because I know you don't like me, I know you love me!"

Well, I guess everyone must have their own love story.
The same goes to me.
 I once got engaged to a man which I think I love him.
So young right? hahaha.
This is the man..

We know each other since our school day.

 As we all know engagement is a time for us to get to know our partner better.
After being someones fiancee for more than a year, we found that we are not meant to be together.
There were things that happened which forced us to broke up and be apart.
Even though I love him, I know that we cannot be together.
 I finally learnt how to stay alive without him.
 I believe that Allah is a better planner and He has plan something better for me. 

I have to admit that sometimes I do miss him but my friend told me:

just because you miss someone,

doesn't mean you need them back in your life..

missing is just part of moving on..

I am trying my best to forget and let him go.

I want to erase all those memory with him..

favorita

puding gula hangus @ puding karamel

i love this because it is sweet and i really love something sweet ^^

ingredients:

8 eggs
1 tablespoon vanilla essence
A can of sweetened condensed milk
A can of water (using the same canned milk)
Granulated sugar that has been fried until it turns into brown color

how to prepare??
follow this step;;


1.Firstly, break the eggs and beat fluffy
2.Add 1 tablespoon of vanilla essence and continue dented or hit back
3.Add also a tin of milk and a can of milk
4. put all the mixture into the fried sugar
5. steam for about 45 minutes


that's all.. easy right?? you can always try to do this at home.. :)

We are still new

MerdekaRaya

These pictures were taken at the auditorium while we were celebrating Merdeka Raya. This was the first activity that we held at Kirkby International College (KIC). The event was held while we were at our first semester here. We did a lot of activities together.. :)